Thursday, October 27, 2011

Greener Grass

I spent the morning with an old friend who was visiting from NY and her two children. She recently had a second baby and was telling me about life in Brooklyn with two under three. It sounded hectic and hard yet very exciting. I felt relieved not to be dealing with subways and walk ups and still seriously jealous. When she left, I realized how much I miss NY and my family and friends. The dull ache has escalated to a searing pain. It must have something to do with the fact that it's been almost four months (!) since I've been there. That is a darn long time for someone who averages 6-8 trips per year. Why yes, I have considered looking into flight attendant work.

Of course, as I was waxing nostalgic on my time in NY, my friend looked wistful herself and noted how lucky I am to live in such a beautiful city. It is beautiful here. Over the past few months, I have really been enjoying our west coast life. Things are generally slower, calmer and overall easier here than they would be in Gotham. I appreciate that, although we live in a major city, our little neighborhood is as quaint as they come. I know the people at the park/grocery store/library hour and they know me. Notwithstanding the extremely high cost of living, San Francisco is a wonderful place to raise a child. A young child, that is. All hell starts to break loose when you consider the schools, but I can't even wrap my head around that now. In the meantime, I'll just appreciate our little impromptu beach trips at the end of October. Tony, our little water dog just needed a swim.






Present enjoyment aside, I still need my family, friends and frenetic NY energy fix. Immediately, if not sooner. Thanksgiving, I'm looking at you.

5 comments:

  1. I now have an overwhelming urge to visit the beach. Sadly, I don't live near one, so this urge will likely go unmet!

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  2. I would love to live near/on the beach. Or at least have a vacation home there. :) The city can be overwhelming, especially with a child but I understand your homesickness.

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  3. PS, I love that first photo of your son! Looks like someone thought the sand was tasty. :p

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  4. Hah, well, if it makes you ladies feel any better, it's never warm enough to swim in the ocean here. But, it is fun to visit and occasionally eat some sand.

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  5. Just found you through the fest!!! Your little boy Is adorable! I know how it isvto be so far away from what you call home, you are a very beautiful writer! * I am your newest stalker!!

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