When I was in high school, I gave my mother a VHS copy of "When Harry Met Sally," along with a box of Mallomars. Two of her favorite things in the world. Two of mine as well. My mom, sister and I watched that movie or bits of that movie whenever we needed a good laugh or a good cry. Easily hundreds of times. I will often think of a line from that film and laugh out loud at the memory, of the movie and the companionship with my mom and sister. How sad it is that when you're older and really appreciate your family members, you hardly spend much time with them. Tomorrow night when my husband goes out and I'm "babysitting," I already know how I'll pass the time. Spending a few hours in a world curated by Nora Ephron is indeed a privilege. Her words will be missed.
A few other privileges I happened to enjoy this week:
Watching the 12-year-old girls and their mamas singing along to Maroon 5 when I happened to catch five minutes of the "Today" show this morning. Not the biggest fan of the band, but how sweet to see such unabashed bonding.
My son stopping to smell each flower and hug each doggie that we pass on our walks. I usually rush him along to get where we're going. Finally, yesterday, I stopped to wonder why I didn't let him revel in it a bit longer. His calendar will be filled soon enough. Perhaps I should start paying more attention to all the lessons he's teaching me rather than stressing about the opposite.
Dinner with old friends last night and seeing one experience true bliss as she cuddled with her three-week-old daughter. Living across the country from where I grew up and spent most of my adult life, I consider myself beyond lucky to have three close friends from college within a twenty minute radius of my house. Maybe forty with traffic. Chatting with them always feels like coming home.
Night out on the town with great friends tonight. Let out of the cage two nights in a row! We're going to rage at this (punk) rock opera. Let's hope my husband doesn't fall asleep-he doesn't have the best theater track record.
Fytk. At dinner the other night my friends yelled at me for watching so many epis of FNL in a row. Literally, they were screaming that I need to savor each episode as it will be over all too soon. All three of them had wistful looks in their eyes and one said that she was jealous I was watching it for the first time. Hah. Perhaps I need to start limiting my time with Tim Riggins.
Thinking about my brother's wedding in the fall and dancing the night
away with family and his old friends. The little mister and I are
already working on our moves.